Fortunately I found out what the problem was. It was the fact that the edtFTPj library uses by default 'Active' mode, and I have never thought on change that. But in the logs I have seen that the other library uses 'Passive' mode, so I just add a
_ftp.getAdvancedFTPSettings().setConnectMode(FTPConnectMode.PASV);
and also the download speed was there:-)
I never thought on that, because how the hell can the transfer rate be depending if the client opens the connection initially to server, or other way arround. A colleage of mine explained it to me, telling me something about routing and that packets need to checked by someone (router,firewall) whereas in the other mode not. To be honest, it didn't get that, but there must be something.
Thank you, for your support.
BTW: Shouldn't be the 'Passive' mode be the default in the edtFTPj library? 'Passive' looks like to be standard.